Over the river and through the woods… Judging by the holiday tune’s light tone, we’re guessing the songwriter never got any further than the general store with her brood! Thanksgiving festivities with little ones can be a wonderful time but, as we all know, it will take a little more work than the ditty delves into.
Leave Early
Try to depart on the Tuesday or Wednesday before the feast. While most airlines will allow those traveling with young children to pre-board and get situated, it may be better if only one parent boards early, puts away carry-ons, and stashes a few toys and snacks in the seat back pockets, while the other parent gives the kids extra time to hang out unconfined in the gate area. If you’re driving to Grandma’s, you’ll need a pit stop, so try to pull off somewhere with a point of interest. It’ll add a tiny bit of time, but may save you a ton of hassle. AAA can be a huge resource for you in this regard.
Get Acclimated
A few days before you hit the road, talk up the day and how much fun it’s going to be. Kids will be better able to handle unfamiliar surroundings and people if you give them time to settle in. Try to arrive at your destination 45 minutes or more before you eat. Everyone will have some time to either get comfy—or run around—with relatives before sitting down to eat.
Food Tips
New food is often intimidating for kids. If your celebration is a potluck, bring a favorite dish from your household, even if it’s not on the traditional Thanksgiving menu. Your kids will like and eat your dish, and every family tradition has to start somewhere, right? Also, if all Junior wants to eat is mashed potatoes, let him fill up, but only if he has a couple bites of turkey and another side of his choice.
Activity Tips
After dinner, while the grownups will catch up and clean up, the kids are going to need something to do. Have them get crafty and make paper hand and feet turkeys, or play a favorite family game. Travel versions of classic games are available at your local mall. You can also find activity sheets with mazes, connect the dots and fill-in-the-blanks online. Print them up beforehand and pull them out as soon as you get the inevitable “I’m bored”.
Plan for the plane or car, mentally prep for new spaces and faces, bring yummy dishes, and on-the-go-fun. Actually, the easy-peasy tone of Over the River may have been spot on. Happy Thanksgiving!